Saturday, December 2, 2017

Coping up with long distance relationship this holiday season


You could be reading this coz' you are in a long distance relationship. So was I. I met this guy few months back and we had a great relationship. Unfortunately he works as a seafarer. He was just on his vacation when we started dating and started our relationship. Last month he needed to go back to work as this is his way to earn for a living. It breaks my heart to see him go but I needed to be strong for him, for us. As we all know communication is the key but it would be a struggle for both of us due to the type of job that he had. Communication is difficult especially if you are nowhere in the middle of the sea. What we do is whenever there's a chance, we made sure to spend the time communicating if it's possible. It will be hard, i know it will be. He's just away for one month and will be back after 8 months, his contract is 9 months in total. Just think positive, bombard yourself with a lot of work to do not to miss him and you'll be fine. Do a count down as this helps. Sadness will come every now and then but you need to be strong. We need to.



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