Coping up with long distance relationship this holiday season

You could be reading this coz' you are in a long distance relationship. So was I. I met this guy few months back and we had a great relationship. Unfortunately he works as a seafarer. He was just on his vacation when we started dating and started our relationship. Last month he needed to go back to work as this is his way to earn for a living. It breaks my heart to see him go but I needed to be strong for him, for us. As we all know communication is the key but it would be a struggle for both of us due to the type of job that he had. Communication is difficult especially if you are nowhere in the middle of the sea. What we do is whenever there's a chance, we made sure to spend the time communicating if it's possible. It will be hard, i know it will be. He's just away for one month and will be back after 8 months, his contract is 9 months in total. Just think positive, bombard yourself with a lot of work to do not to miss him and you'll be fine. Do a count down as this helps. Sadness will come every now and then but you need to be strong. We need to.

Christmas Gift Ideas for Him

Simple things are the best things. What I'm thinking as one of the presents for my boyfriend this Christmas is a simple body bag. He doesn't carry bags when he goes out, he usually gives me his stuffs to keep on my bag. I think it' time for him to have one to carry. These items below looks perfect for him. I'm sure that he would love this.

items available at Shopee

Jealousy - Is it Normal?

Jealousy in relationships is "normal" and "vital". Without it, relationship remains immature and shallow. "Healthy jealousy" is a concerned, protective feeling that surrounds both parties. It could support and guard a relationship from intruders who might "sabotage" or do harm on your relationship. Some might express it too much, could be jealous of little things, but such can be eased by understanding, assurance, affection and honesty - or just plain expression of love...

If a relationship has those little twinges of jealousy now and then, it just means you both really care, and hope you don't ever lose one another, it just depends on how you handle it.

   

Crush and Love Quotes

When I look on you a moment,
then I can speak no more,
but my tongue falls silent,
and at once a delicate flame
courses beneath my skin,
and with my eyes I see nothing,
and my ears hum, and a wet sweat
bathes me and a trembling seizes me all over.

~Sappho


Sudden love is latest cured.

~Jean de La Bruyere


The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it.

~Israel Zangwill

The Truth - Kris Allen

The Truth Lyrics – Kris Allen

Lyin' next to you
Wishing I could disappear...aay
Let you fall asleep
And vanish out into thin air..aay
It's the elephant in the room
And we pretend that we don't see it.
It's the avalanche that looms above our heads.
And we don't believe it.
Tryin' to be perfect
Tryin' not to let you down...ooww
Honesty is honestly the hardest thing for me right now...yeah
while the floors underneath our feet are crumbling
The walls we built together tumblin'
I still stand here holdin' up the roof
Cause it's easier than telling the truth.
I still keep your photographs
I remember how we used to laugh
I can keep on losin' sleep
If you're okay with being torn in half.
It's the elephant in the room
And we pretend that we don't see it.
It's an avalanche that looms above our heads
But we don't believe it.
Tryin' to be perfect, tryin' not to let you down...oww
Honesty is honestly the hardest thing for me right now...yeah
While the floors underneath our feet are crumblin'
The walls we built together tumblin'
I still stand here holdin' up the roof
Cause it's easier than telling the truth.
Stop ignoring that our hearts are mourning
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And let the rain come in.
Stop pretending that it's not ending
And let the end begin.
Oh yeah...
Tryin' to be perfect, tryin' not to let you down...yeah
Honesty is honestly the hardest thing for me right now...yeah
While the floors underneath our feet are crumblin'
The walls we built together tumblin'
I still stand here holdin' up the roof
Cause it's easier than telling the truth.
It's easier than telling the truth...

Varsity - Baby Steps

Varsity - Baby Steps Lyrics

(Ohh) (Yeah yeah)
Admit it, we're finished, you don't want me no more (No)
Like a night mare, I lived it, it was too big to ignore (Ooh)
I hear the sounds but they pass me by.
My hazard lights are flashing, somebody, anyone -
Help cause its an emergency.
Someone just wounded my heart.
So help, its like a bad surgery and now its time to recharge.
I'm starting over taking,
One, two, baby steps.
Three, four, baby steps.
Five, six, baby steps.
I'm starting over again.
Abandonded, yeah I'm crying.
Its like you left me so dead (So dead, so dead)
I'm so broken, my love's frozen.
How do you live with regrets (Oh woah)
I see the memories flash before my eyes.
My tank is running empty, somebody rescue me.
Help cause its an emergency.
Someone just wounded my heart.
So help, its like a bad surgery and now its time to recharge.
I'm starting over taking,
One, two, baby steps.
Three, four, baby steps.
Five, six, baby steps.
I'm starting over taking,
One, two, baby steps.
Three, four, baby steps.
Five, six, baby steps.
I'm starting over again.
Its unexplainable, kind of and unattainable when the person you love aint enough.
I feel so pitiful, look at my face you'll know the pain is in my eyes.
I need some, help.
(x2)
Help cause its an emergency.
Someone just wounded my heart.
So help, its like a bad surgery and now its time to recharge.
I'm starting over taking,
One, two, baby steps.
Three, four, baby steps.
Five, six, baby steps.
I'm starting over again.